Finally had time to read this and loved it!!!! Feel this so so much: “So much of what I find hot in the visible queerness I see around me is not what actually works for me, in my own body.” Hashtag femme problems. Beautiful reflections friend!
Thank you!!! We need the easily identifiable queerness, but we need to see all the other queerness that exists too. It's both a benefit and drawback that a corner of my brain just assumes all femmes are queer when I see one, but that's just selfish hopefulness on my part.
So much yes. Big love to you in sharing yourself with us here and simply existing. Your bit on gender euphoria reminded me of a joke some fellow trans friends and I have: when you are euphoric as hell you hear 'gender trumpets' or when it's just a sprinkle, it's more of a 'gender triangle' or [insert any other instrument here].
THIS IS SOOOOOOO GOOOOOOD AND I FEEL ALL OF THESE THINGS
Thank yoooou! It's good to know it's not just me.
Finally had time to read this and loved it!!!! Feel this so so much: “So much of what I find hot in the visible queerness I see around me is not what actually works for me, in my own body.” Hashtag femme problems. Beautiful reflections friend!
Thank you!!! We need the easily identifiable queerness, but we need to see all the other queerness that exists too. It's both a benefit and drawback that a corner of my brain just assumes all femmes are queer when I see one, but that's just selfish hopefulness on my part.
So much yes. Big love to you in sharing yourself with us here and simply existing. Your bit on gender euphoria reminded me of a joke some fellow trans friends and I have: when you are euphoric as hell you hear 'gender trumpets' or when it's just a sprinkle, it's more of a 'gender triangle' or [insert any other instrument here].
The gender triangle! Haha, yes I love that (also because for some reason the triangle seems like a deeply queer instrument).
thank you for saying so many things that I have thought but not put into words, and so many things that I truly did need to hear.
Thank you for saying so! So many of these are such inner thoughts that can be hard to articulate sometimes, so it means a lot that this landed.
Had many big feelings reading this 🩶
Also anyone not reading one of your all beige outfit as gay is not paying attention!! The straights could never.
Thank you for always seeing me in my beige queerness. ✨
I’m really glad that it resonated with you too! Even though I think it shows up in all of these specific ways, I had a feeling I’m not the only one.